Thursday, January 30, 2020

Lessons and examples of the story of Eve


Many people know who Eve is in the Bible. Eve is the first woman mentioned in the Bible. In Genesis, she is made from Adam’s rib as a companion and helper with him in the Garden of Eden. As Genesis 2:18 says “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.” Her name means “life giving” or “mother of all who have life.” She is also the one who is first tempted by the serpent. Is there more we can know about Eve and her story? There are lessons we can learn from her story. What can be learn from her sorrows and joy? What were her strengths and weaknesses?


Eve’s story begins in the Garden of Eden with Adam. There were no shadows, no disorder, and no discord or fear. Perfect harmony. She was in peace with God and her husband. She did not know the meaning of embarrassment, misunderstanding, pain, envy, bitterness, grief or guilt. Until one day, Satan disguised as the serpent (often depicted as a snake but was mostly likely a large lizard) came and she allowed doubt and desire to persuade her to eat from the forbidden tree. Suddenly, there was no more harmony in Eden and darkness and death entered the world. God punishes Eve and Adam with banishment. Eve is cursed with pain in childbirth and Adam is cursed with a lifetime of hard labor. After they leave the garden, Eve gives birth to a son, Cain, who would later murder his brother, Abel, with jealousy in his heart. When the Bible last speaks of Eve, she is a woman in anguish as she gives birth to another son, Seth (Genesis 4:25). Her death is not recorded in the Scriptures.


Her main sorrow was she and Adam were banished from Paradise and the presence of God. She would know anguish as her eldest son killed his younger brother in jealousy. But joy? What joy did Eve have? God promised that her offspring would eventually destroy her enemy. Genesis 3:15 says, “And I will put enmity between you [the serpent] and the woman, and between your offspring and hers; he will crush your head and you will strike his heel.” Imbedded in this verse is the promise of a Redeemer, a Savior. This verse is a foreshadowing of Jesus as God reveals his plan to defeat Satan and offer salvation to the world. The phrase, “you will strike his heel,” refers to Satan’s repeated attempts to defeat Jesus during his lifetime and “he will crush your head” refers to Jesus’s defeat of Satan by rising from the dead. Even after their punishment, God still cared for them and formulated a plan to undo their sin. The lesson here is that despite our sin and our inevitable physical death, God’s grace and mercy are the most beautiful gifts. Despite being at our lowest, suffering from the consequences of our sin, God’s grace is still at work within us.


We know Eve’s strengths as the first female. The first wife and mother. She recognizes that life is in God’s control as she proclaims, “With the help of the Lord, I have brought forth a man” (Genesis 4:1). She had a relationship with God and with her husband as she had co-responsibility over creation with him. Unfortunately, she is better known for her mistakes. She allowed her contentment to be undermined. She was willing to accept Satan’s argument without checking with God. She ignored what she knew God had done and focused on what he withheld. Sound familiar? How often do we focus on what we don’t have and rail against God instead of focusing on praising Him for what He has provided? Our desires, the “I’ve got to have it now” feeling keeps us very manipulated and easily influenced by factors other than God. When confronted by God for her sin, she blamed others, “The serpent deceived me, and I ate” (Genesis 3:13), rather than take responsibility for her actions. 


In conclusion, Eve is an example of how we can be deceived when we take our eyes off God and His promises. How much our lives can be misled when we turned to ourselves instead of turning to Him. She is also an example of the great promise God gave us in Jesus. A Redeemer to rid ourselves and the world of Satan’s deceptions. Eve is an example of when godly people do ungodly things. That despite knowing better, their desire, their lack of judgment or they let their emotions overrun their rational thought and they do things they knew they shouldn’t do. Eve is an example of what happens we let our guard down and let Satan whisper in our ears and hearts.

Tuesday, January 28, 2020

Home to You: a Christian love story


Home to You by Jenn Faulk is the story of Faith Hayes and Sam Huntington. Faith has been in love with Sam since she was 6 years old and used to sit next to him in church. Sam is 10 years older than Faith and always saw her as a sweet little girl in church. But after 10 years apart, and on leave from the Marines, Sam sees Faith again and doesn’t recognize the little girl in the young woman. After realizing that Faith is the little girl from church, he cuts off all contact and heads to combat in Afghanistan. Heartbroken, Faith pours herself more into her studies and tries to forget Sam Huntington. The story fast forwards again, 8 years later, Faith is now 24 years old and a midwife at a Houston women’s clinic where another chance meeting puts her face to face with Sam. Sam is a broken man, plagued by nightmares of his time in combat and trying to put the pieces of his life together. Is this the chance for Faith and Sam to finally be together? Can Faith help Sam recover from his emotional battle scars? Is there anything that stands in their way?


Home to You wasn’t the book I thought it was. It started out great with the interactions between Faith and Sam, despite their age differences, had an obvious attraction. Then toward the end, Faith starts acting strange and, to me, out of character. There is one scene in which Sam turns her away from their make out session because he wants to be honorable and wait for marriage. Sounds reasonable for two Christian people, right? Well, Faith starts distancing herself from Sam because he “rejected” her? For a character who has a strong faith in Christ and raised in a Christian home, this behavior seems odd. Then there are two characters, despite being Christian, are openly hostile to Sam because he is former military, “We’re in the job of saving lives, not ending them.” Like seriously!?!?! There are other events that turned me off about the story. Overall, I liked the story. I loved and sympathized with Sam’s character and wanted to see him happy and leading a better life. Faith, I didn’t care so much for. Her drive for perfection and everything according to a timetable seems unrealistic for a woman who chose midwifery as a career. I’m torn if I recommend this book or not. If this seems like you would enjoy this book, check it.

Home to You
is available in paperback and eBook

Saturday, January 25, 2020

Dancing with the Sun: a fight for survival brings recovery from the past


Dancing with the Sun by Kay Bratt is the story of Sadie Harlan, through a life and death situation, learns to confront the past and move forward with her life. One weekend while her husband Tom is away on a camping trip, Sadie realizes that items are missing from their home in South Carolina. Fearing the worst, Sadie books a flight and visits their daughter, Lauren, who is attending a summer internship in Yosemite. Lauren convinces to take a short hike into the park and despite her anxiety, Sadie follows her. Soon they get hopelessly lost and a sudden rainstorm catches them unaware and unprepared. Their short hike turns into a fight for their lives as they search for food, water and the way back. They face injuries, exhaustion and natural predators. While facing almost certain death, Sadie and Lauren open up to each other about the past and their future plans. Will they be able to get out of the park alive? Will Sadie discover strength and resourcefulness? Will Sadie finally forgive herself and learn to let go of the past?


One of my worst fears is being lost in the wilderness without supplies and without a way home. Dancing with the Sun certainly is a story to remind people to always be prepared when going into the wild. On a deeper level, it is a great story about a woman who realizes that she’s holding onto the past and refuses to allow herself to love and be loved and experience the fullness of life. When faced with the possibility of death, Sadie learns an important lesson about letting go and moving on. I was able to finish this book in a few hours as it drew me in and refused to be put down. I had to finish. I had to know if Sadie and Lauren survive. I highly recommend Dancing with the Sun.

Dancing with the Sun
is available in paperback, eBook and audiobook

Wednesday, January 22, 2020

The Gray Chamber: one woman's fight to gain her freedom


The Gray Chamber by Grace Hitchcock is another book in her True Color series which features historical stories of American Crime. These stories are strange but true events. In this story, Edyth Foster is a young woman who is a few months from her 25th birthday and receiving her total inheritance. She has been in the guardianship of her Uncle Boris since her parents were killed in a tragic accident many years prior. Edyth is seen as odd as she likes to ride her velocipede (an early form of a bicycle) and participate in the local fencing club with her oldest friend Raoul “Bane” Banebridge. She isn’t interested in the latest fashions or even following the rules of high society of 1887 New York. Just as Bane and Edyth’s relationship begins to blossom into more than just friendship. Edyth finds herself being examined for mental health issues. Thinking her uncle would never have her committed, she finds herself locked away in New York’s infamous Blackwell’s Island in the Woman’s Lunatic Asylum where no one believes that she has been wrongly committed or even what her real name is. There she meets another patient, Nellie Brown, who seems as sound mind as Edyth does. Will Edyth ever escape this nightmare? Will Bane find a way to set her free and help Edyth expose the truth?


The Gray Chamber is another awesome book in this series. I read The White City (2019) last year and loved Ms. Hitchcock blend of fiction with the historical events. From the opening page, the reader is introduced to a time when mental illness wasn’t understood and women were routinely falsely diagnosed as mental ill in order to get rid of them for various reasons. Some women were wives that husbands found a way to divorce them without scandal or even immigrants who couldn’t speak the language. The drama is intense and exciting. The treatment of the patients is horrifying and heartbreaking. The asylum was officially closed in 1894 after an expose was published and led to a grand jury investigation. There are characters, you know, are up to no good right off the bat and there are characters that surprise you as their motives are revealed. I look forward to reading other titles in the True Color series and I highly recommend The Gray Chamber!

The Gray Chamber
is available in paperback, eBook and audiobook

Monday, January 20, 2020

Wish Me Home: a woman's journey to find a place to belong


Wish Me Home by Kay Bratt is the story of Cara Butter, 30, is homeless and on the road to no where in particular. Cara and her twin sister, Hana, grew up in the foster care system and those memories left her with difficulties to trust and feelings of unable to belong. Walking one day, she is followed by a dog and despite her best efforts, he would not leave her. So, she reluctantly takes the dog, whom she has named “Hemingway” or Hemi for short, as she decides to head for Key West, Florida. Despite her desires to be left alone, she meets various people along the way who help her on her journey with food and shelter for the night. When she arrives in Key West, it is not what she imagined. She finds work at an animal shelter run by Luke. There, it seems, that she has finally found a place to belong. However, Cara can’t help always looking over her shoulder, waiting for the bottom to drop and be alone again. Will she be able to trust Luke with her past? Will she ever be able to stop running?


Wish Me Home was my first book by Kay Bratt, and it will not be my last. Ms. Bratt’s storytelling is captivating, emotional, and realistic that it felts as if Cara and the other characters could be real people in my life, in my community. She deals with real life situations of the foster care system, depression and even suicide. The characters are dealing with life and loss and the pain of moving forward. Even though I’m not really a dog person, I prefer cats, I loved Hemi as he seems to be her guardian angel and protector that leads her on the road with a purpose and a destination. I highly recommend Wish Me Home.

Wish Me Home
is available in paperback, eBook, and audiobook

Saturday, January 18, 2020

True to Me: an adventure of self-discovery


True to Me by Kay Bratt is the first book in the By the Sea series. It is the story of Quinn Maguire who is sent on a mission to Maui to fulfill her mother’s dying wish and discover the truth about her mother’s dying declaration. Life for Quinn was perfect. She had a great job, a handsome fiancé, and a clear plan for her future. When her mother tells her that the man, she thought was her father really isn’t, Quinn is unsure where to turn next. On an impulse, she buys a cottage on Maui and decides to renovate it while trying to untangle the truth behind her mother’s declaration. While on the island, she meets a local family who has fallen on hard times and makes fast friends with the locals who show her what true hospitality is. With the help of the locals, she discovers the truth behind who her father is, and the truth is stranger and more dramatic than she ever imagined! What will Quinn do once she discovers the truth? Will she return to the life and fiancé she left behind? Or will the lure and magic of the island draw her in?


True to Me is another Kay Bratt story that pulls you in and doesn’t let go. From the open page to the final scene, you are on this journey with Quinn. One thing I will say is I found it hard to like Quinn at certain points in the story. There were times I wish I could reach into the pages and shake Quinn and tell her to be a bit more sympathetic and not to be so mean. Other times I wanted to scream at her to open to eyes and to stop being such a fool. Eventually she does come around and stars to fight for what she wants and needs. Overall, True to Me is a great story about family, community and forgiveness. I highly recommend it!

True to Me
is available in paperback, eBook and audiobook

Thursday, January 16, 2020

Big Lies in a Small Town: a story of mystery, danger and a mural


Big Lies in a Small Town by Diane Chamberlain open in Edenton, North Carolina in March 1940 as three young children discover the body of a man. Fast forward to a prison for women in the summer of 2018 where Morgan Christopher is serving time is offered a chance for freedom. The late Jesse Jameson Williams, a famous painter, has requested in his will that Morgan restore a mural for the opening of his gallery in Edenton. Although she has never restored a painting before, she jumps at the chance to get out of prison and get a fresh start. With a firm deadline and so much riding on her finishing, Morgan is unsure how to begin. Back to December 1939, where Anna Dale learns she has been chosen to paint a mural for the Edenton Post Office from thousands of applicants. Eager for a fresh start, Anna makes a trip to Edenton to start the project. Told back and forth between 1939-1940 and the summer of 2018, the story weaves a mystery of Anna’s mural and a connection to Morgan. How are these two women connected? What is behind the mysterious images in the mural? Can Morgan finish the mural in time? Can she find the fresh start she has been hoping for?


I have read a couple of Ms. Chamberlain’s books before and loved them, so when I had the chance to read Big Lies in a Small Town, I jumped at it. And it did not disappoint. From the opening chapter to the final scene, the story draws you in to a time and place of racism, innuendo and danger. And to a mystery that the reader tries to piece together along with Morgan. I enjoyed all the characters especially Morgan as she tries to make amends for the mistakes of her past and move forward for her future. I also enjoyed Anna and how she stands up for Jesse, who is a black teen, and sees not his color but his amazing talent that would go to waste if it is not nurtured. The attitudes of the townspeople toward their friendships were on point with the time. There is so much more I wish I could say but it would ruin the twists and turns this book will take you on. Big Lies in a Small Town is a great book and I highly recommend it!

Big Lies in a Small Town
is available in hardcover, eBook and audiobook