Sunday, April 19, 2020

A Million Little Things: a real to life drama show that takes an honest look at suicide, grief, and cancer

A Million Little Things is an American drama series which premiered on September 26, 2018 and currently finished its second season on Thursday nights on ABC. It has not been officially renewed for a third season, although it’s creator, DJ Nash, has hinted that an official renewal is coming. The show’s premise is “It has been said that friendship isn’t one big thing, it’s a million little things.” It has an ensemble cast: David Giuntoli (Eddie Saville), Grace Park (Katherine, Eddie’s wife), Romany Malco (Rome Howard), Christina Moses (Regina, Rome’s wife), Allison Miller (Maggie Bloom), James Roday (Gary Mendez) and Stephanie Szostak (Delilah Dixon). The show deals with suicide, depression, cancer, the grief process and the struggle to move on in a new light.


The show starts as just another day with this tight knit friends/family. Gary is at his doctor’s office, waiting on important test results. Rome is at home writing a suicide note before preparing to take a handful of pills. Eddie and Delilah are together on their weekly rendezvous. All seems normal until they all get the call. Jon Dixon (played by Ron Livingston), Delilah’s husband has just jumped off his office balcony to his death. His suicide is so out of the blue that the group of friends are left wondering what they didn’t see and so many questions that can never be answered. The four men, who became friends after getting stuck together in an elevator, bonded together by their love for the Boston Bruins and Jon, their de facto leader, their champion and cheerleader. Without him, the group struggles to find their center again. As they grieve and cope with the aftermath, secrets and drama are revealed as life goes on.


I started to watch the show because James Roday was in it. I love him in the USA show Psych (2006-2014) and I was curious to see him take on a dramatic role. From the beginning I enjoyed the show’s ability to tackle hard topics with honesty and heart. First, I appreciate the honest and openness about cancer especially male breast cancer. While rare, male breast cancer occurs in an estimated one in a thousand men will be diagnosed. I also appreciate the writers’ ability to show the truth about depression in men. Men are taught to be tough, to hide their emotions, and not to talk about their feelings. Depression occurs in about 9% of men while only 1 in 4 will seek profession help (American Psychological Association, 2015). I also liked the realistic portrayal of the grief process. The initial shock, the sadness and anger, especially the anger. The show is raw, it is real, and it is sometimes hard to watch.


There are a few things I don’t care for. At first, I didn’t care for Katherine, the high-powered attorney, and felt bad for Eddie, the hen-pecked stay at home dad. However, as season 2 opened, I started to like her take-no-prisoners approach and I saw how hurt and devasted she was by the situations. Actress Grace Park plays Katherine beautifully and I have enjoyed seeing her character evolve since episode 1. Second, I really don’t care for Katherine’s and Eddie’s son, Theo. I’m not sure if it how he is written or the young actor’s acting, but Theo comes off as annoying and sometimes a tad unbelievable as an 8-year-old. In season 2, Delilah gave birth to a daughter, Charlie, and every time the child is on screen, the baby is wearing a beanie. I understand that the show takes place in Boston so its cold, but a child doesn’t need her head covered all the time especially when inside.


In conclusion, I recommend A Million Little Things as a dramatic show which takes an honest look at grief, depression, cancer and the human ability or inability to deal with it all. It takes an honest look at suicide, its aftermath and its prevention. For fans of Psych, if you haven’t already, I recommend checking out the show to see James Roday in a dramatic role. He is just as talented in this role as he was in a comedic role. Every actor in this show fits his or her role perfectly and as you watch, you will grow to love the characters as you watch them in grief, struggle with unanswerable questions and find a way to move forward. If A Million Little Things open the conversation which saves lives from suicide, then it’s worth watching.




References

American Psychological Association (December 2015). By the Numbers. https://www.apa.org/monitor/2015/12/numbers. Retrieved March 7, 2020. 

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